Lost Friends

PS.LeeAnn i write in eng also,so u just need to read the eng part

我刚刚在想 保持一段关系不是一件容易的事 需要的是持续的投入
当然有的阶段我们并不能意识到自己是在投入 这样比较好 但是事实是 年龄成长 生活结构改变 没意识的是少数
它们很脆弱 距离 时间 从来都没有不成问题

几经周折 我终于弄到了他的联系方式
我问了潍坊的很多人 都已经没有他的联系方式了
都是高中三年没有联系过 我也一样
我们是初中同学 初二那年他跟随父母搬去了北京
我清楚记得 他走后 我把他的照片摆在书桌前 难过的心情持续了很久
现在说这些有些丢人 但都已是往事
那真是个单纯真情的年龄 我想 现在和以后 不会再有朋友的离别会给我带来持续长时间的难过

我们初中一帮人的事我就不在这里说了 那是我记忆力最理想化的友谊 不过是前半部分
我想说的是朋友 You can never have too many friends...很少就够了
但是即使很少 也是上天的gift 好难 真的
而且真正的友谊并不一定代表坚固的友谊 我不相信relationship是坚不可摧的
distance physically 有时就等于distance emotionally
Melody我和你一起的日子真的觉得很快乐 很有true fri的感觉 但是我恐怕这又是一个distant relationship...

再说 a lost friend...重新联系需要勇气 因为现代通讯的那头 是未知和不确定性
3年 改变太多 而且三年前就somehow改变了 去了同一个城市 你们还有没有机会再认识？

To the lucky guys who hav true fri,do appreciate it,enjoy it,and protect it
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I was just thinking,relationship is nvr easy,we hav to invest our emotions n feelings n time into someone,though we sometimes don realize that.
I always believe relationships r fragile.

I finally got the lost fri's cellphone no.
my fri in Shandong all lost connection with him n we havn connect woth him for more than 3 yrs
we r good fri in sec sch,actually we r best fri,but he moved to beijing 5 yrs ago
I can still remember clearly how i put his pic on my table,how my tears fell off,got my face n hair wet
it's sheepish to write such things,but it's all past,i was only a little girl who was easily show true emotions.and we were all children who were easily build true relationship with

well,no more for the past...what i want to say is,u r must a super lucky guy if u get a true close fri
You can never have too many friends...and a few is enough...but even one it seems not to be easy
and when i thought i found a promising one...then it turns to be another distant relationship.we'll surely stay in the diff city...or maybe u can come to bj often after u come back u prc?
In my opinion distance physically is somehow equal to distance emotionally.

What's more...a lost fri...is it proper for u to reconnect him?It needs brave
There r too many uncertainties on the other terminal of our mordern communication tech.

anyway
To the lucky guys who hav true fri,do appreciate it,enjoy it,and protect it